100+ Something That’s Non-Negotiable for Me — Hinge Prompts

When it comes to dating, I’m pretty clear about what I want and what I just can’t compromise on. Hinge prompts are a fun way to get to know someone, but for me, some things just have to be non-negotiable. These are the little (and big) traits or habits that I simply won’t settle for.

Whether it’s a dealbreaker about personality, habits, or lifestyle, I keep these things top of mind when swiping. Here’s a massive list of 100+ non-negotiables I look for — or avoid — when I’m checking out Hinge profiles.

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Basic Personality Must-Haves

Honesty above all
Kindness to strangers
Sense of humor that clicks with mine
Being able to hold a real conversation
Respect for others’ opinions
Good listener, not just a talker
Emotionally available and open
No arrogance or ego trips
Willingness to admit mistakes
Positive attitude most of the time
Enjoys spontaneous adventures
Values family and friends
Curious about the world
Not afraid to be vulnerable
Loyal and trustworthy
Patient, especially during tough times
Doesn’t ghost or play games
Shares similar values
Empathy and compassion
Doesn’t take themselves too seriously

Lifestyle and Daily Habits

Keeps their living space clean
Doesn’t smoke or at least wants to quit
Drinks responsibly, if at all
Loves animals or at least respects them
Has a stable job or passion project
Enjoys cooking or eating healthy
Likes being active or working out
Values mental health and self-care
Enjoys reading or learning new things
Has a good sleep routine
No excessive screen time
Doesn’t overshare personal drama online
Keeps promises and commitments
Respects personal space
Likes traveling or open to it
Not overly attached to their phone
Understands the value of money
Willing to try new hobbies
Keeps a good balance of work and fun
Doesn’t have toxic relationships

Communication and Relationship Style

Sends clear and timely messages
Doesn’t play hard to get
Honest about intentions
Appreciates good jokes and sarcasm
Open to talking about feelings
Doesn’t rush into things
Values deep connection over surface talk
Can disagree respectfully
Willing to work on issues together
Shows appreciation regularly
Has good boundaries
Not overly jealous or possessive
Willing to meet halfway
Likes to share experiences, not just words
Supports personal growth
Doesn’t expect mind reading
Can laugh at themselves
Is consistent, not flaky
Believes in teamwork in a relationship
Doesn’t keep score or bring up past fights

Fun and Quirky Things I Like

Loves cheesy movies sometimes
Enjoys random dance parties
Has weird but endearing habits
Likes pets (especially dogs)
Enjoys spontaneous road trips
Can cook a decent meal or tries to
Knows their music taste well
Likes to binge-watch shows
Has a favorite board game or card game
Loves sharing memes
Enjoys puzzles or brain games
Can be silly and goofy
Likes trying new restaurants
Appreciates bad puns
Is a little bit of a foodie
Can handle a karaoke night
Likes cozy nights in
Has a unique hobby or interest
Enjoys outdoor activities
Likes planning little surprises

Non-Negotiable Dealbreakers

No cheating or flirting with others
Doesn’t disrespect waitstaff or strangers
Not addicted to their phone
No extreme political or religious intolerance
Doesn’t cancel plans last minute often
Doesn’t talk about their ex a lot
Doesn’t expect me to change
Not controlling or manipulative
Doesn’t have a hot temper
Doesn’t lie or sugarcoat the truth
Doesn’t pressure me for things I’m not ready for
Doesn’t ignore boundaries
Not overly clingy or needy
Doesn’t constantly complain
Respects my goals and dreams
Doesn’t play the victim all the time
Doesn’t judge my hobbies or friends
No heavy drug use or dangerous habits
Not a compulsive gambler or spender
Keeps their word always

Bonus Non-Negotiables

Loves to laugh daily
Can enjoy silence comfortably
Respects nature and the environment
Doesn’t ghost friends or family
Appreciates little things in life
Believes in self-improvement
Values honesty over “saving face”
Can be spontaneous but reliable
Wants to grow together, not apart
Has a kind heart underneath everything

These are the things I look for, and honestly, I believe having clear non-negotiables helps me find someone truly compatible. What about you? What’s non-negotiable for you on Hinge?

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